Comments on: Secrets to Making Change Easier http://www.livingorsurviving.com/secrets-to-making-change-easier/ The Road To Happiness Revealed Fri, 10 Sep 2010 19:31:24 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6 By: albert http://www.livingorsurviving.com/secrets-to-making-change-easier/#comment-1139 albert Sun, 03 May 2009 06:33:24 +0000 http://www.livingorsurviving.com/?p=247#comment-1139 i've tried everything for a change yoga,music,gym,but nthing seems working please help i’ve tried everything for a change yoga,music,gym,but nthing seems working please help

]]> By: LivingorSurviving.com http://www.livingorsurviving.com/secrets-to-making-change-easier/#comment-1045 LivingorSurviving.com Sat, 03 Jan 2009 00:59:22 +0000 http://www.livingorsurviving.com/?p=247#comment-1045 Wow, quite a story ... If it were me in that position I would leave him and the job. It is easier said than done, but you will feel liberated and empowered once you have moved on. Good Luck !!! Wow, quite a story …
If it were me in that position I would leave him and the job. It is easier said than done, but you will feel liberated and empowered once you have moved on.

Good Luck !!!

]]> By: Mirna http://www.livingorsurviving.com/secrets-to-making-change-easier/#comment-1044 Mirna Fri, 02 Jan 2009 22:47:08 +0000 http://www.livingorsurviving.com/?p=247#comment-1044 First I was inspired by your articale as i was reading the positive, and interesting ways on how to get started in making changes in life. I do have a question. I feel stuck as the my life is going through these one after another changes. My changes are quite big. Starting with whom i go out with and have been with for 8 years, also who now happens to be my boss for the past 1 1/2 year. It was his idea for me to come and work for him when I lost my job. For the first time in my life I was fired by someone who had just started and was in her position for 4 month. He had said life is much simpler and things would be much better easier for me with out all that stress I've been enduring. Which this was ture however,not so great either. There's no insurance,little pay not to mention its gross pay. Being on a 1099 means, I'm completely responsible for deducting my own taxes. This is fine, but not what we had originally agreed to. I don't say anything, as i should be greatful I have a job. But as for our outings, they don't seem to happen anymore. And when he takes trips, he never includes me in, and tells me a week later he's going on a trip. I feel so trapped, and there are no jobs out there. I need to exit this relation ship but can't be right now with out a job or some income, coming in. I'm going to make a decision which i feel is about time. He feels he is the nice's person for what he has done and am greatful but i shouldn't have to put up with all of his arogancies. Don't you agree. He tells me, I shouldn't complain. - I get to pick up my daughter from school and bring her bac to work with me. This saves me day care money Which is quit a big chunk. Also if i'm running behind there's really no explaing to anyone. Since I'm basicly self employed. My situation in this respect is conveient but not a happy one. I really don't want him to think he has the right to run my life. Just because I'm here. Not mention isn't doesn't work if you take advantage of someone. He to, may feel he doesn't want me here anymore but dosen't know how to tell me. I've asked as he doesn't answer. What he does say is this can work for both of us. I may be wrong, but these are my feeling and I feel like just ending the whole thing. Relationship and all. I really feel it would be best for both of us. I regret in taking him up on his offer. As he did say to me, no matter what happens between us you should alway feel you can come to your job. This of couse was not true, as I had come to find out this past summer when I told him I wanted to split up and I needed some time to think. He said "I will give you a resignation form tomorrow." Not to mention I never sign a form in the first place when I started. I had not been sure if I had wanted to do this nor was I ready in the first place. But we do get along very well, when he gets his way. I feel life is just not fair, but what is fair. First I was inspired by your articale as i was reading the positive, and interesting ways on how to get started in making changes in life. I do have a question. I feel stuck as the my life is going through these one after another changes. My changes are quite big. Starting with whom i go out with and have been with for 8 years, also who now happens to be my boss for the past 1 1/2 year. It was his idea for me to come and work for him when I lost my job. For the first time in my life I was fired by someone who had just started and was in her position for 4 month. He had said life is much simpler and things would be much better easier for me with out all that stress I’ve been enduring. Which this was ture however,not so great either. There’s no insurance,little pay not to mention its gross pay. Being on a 1099 means, I’m completely responsible for deducting my own taxes. This is fine, but not what we had originally agreed to. I don’t say anything, as i should be greatful I have a job. But as for our outings, they don’t seem to happen anymore. And when he takes trips, he never includes me in, and tells me a week later he’s going on a trip. I feel so trapped, and there are no jobs out there. I need to exit this relation ship but can’t be right now with out a job or some income, coming in. I’m going to make a decision which i feel is about time. He feels he is the nice’s person for what he has done and am greatful but i shouldn’t have to put up with all of his arogancies. Don’t you agree. He tells me, I shouldn’t complain. - I get to pick up my daughter from school and bring her bac to work with me. This saves me day care money Which is quit a big chunk. Also if i’m running behind there’s really no explaing to anyone. Since I’m basicly self employed. My situation in this respect is conveient but not a happy one. I really don’t want him to think he has the right to run my life. Just because I’m here. Not mention isn’t doesn’t work if you take advantage of someone. He to, may feel he doesn’t want me here anymore but dosen’t know how to tell me. I’ve asked as he doesn’t answer.
What he does say is this can work for both of us. I may be wrong, but these are my feeling and I feel like just ending the whole thing. Relationship and all. I really feel it would be best for both of us. I regret in taking him up on his offer. As he did say to me, no matter what happens between us you should alway feel you can come to your job. This of couse was not true, as I had come to find out this past summer when I told him I wanted to split up and I needed some time to think. He said “I will give you a resignation form tomorrow.” Not to mention I never sign a form in the first place when I started. I had not been sure if I had wanted to do this nor was I ready in the first place. But we do get along very well, when he gets his way. I feel life is just not fair, but what is fair.

]]> By: pugeault http://www.livingorsurviving.com/secrets-to-making-change-easier/#comment-994 pugeault Fri, 05 Dec 2008 10:37:53 +0000 http://www.livingorsurviving.com/?p=247#comment-994 I'm french and would like to change. I haven't undersatnt all your article but i want to changetomorrow if possible. I'm a teacher and want to try business, in the USA, or China, or Russia. My french adress is "gilles.pugeault@wanadoo.fr". I have a full of ideas and I begin having few propositions. I expect that i will have change in my live very rapidly and that doors'll open. I accept all the propositions of work; I can be the boss or not. Nice to write you .G. (ps : i'm perfecting my english !!...) I’m french and would like to change. I haven’t undersatnt all your article but i want to changetomorrow if possible. I’m a teacher
and want to try business, in the USA, or China, or Russia. My french adress is “gilles.pugeault@wanadoo.fr”. I have a full of ideas and I begin having few propositions. I expect that i will have change in my live very rapidly and that doors’ll open. I accept all the propositions of work; I can be the boss or not.
Nice to write you .G. (ps : i’m perfecting my english !!…)

]]> By: Geraldine http://www.livingorsurviving.com/secrets-to-making-change-easier/#comment-990 Geraldine Thu, 27 Nov 2008 20:09:12 +0000 http://www.livingorsurviving.com/?p=247#comment-990 I agree with Kevin. But I find your article very interesting. For me, change is a refreshing thing but not one I necessarily consider easy. Thank you for your tips! Keep up the good work! I agree with Kevin. But I find your article very interesting. For me, change is a refreshing thing but not one I necessarily consider easy. Thank you for your tips! Keep up the good work!

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