For some, romance may not be as important as money, health, free time, or leisure.  However, it is usually important to your partner, and a relationship is a two-way street.  A happy partner can make you happy. 

The key to a successful romantic life is communication — your partner will not know if anything is wrong unless you tell them.  Tell them what you like as well as what you don’t like.  If you’re always telling them what you don’t like, it becomes nagging and counter-productive. 

A positive comment makes for positive people.  If you can’t think of anything your partner does that is romantic, remind them how important it is to you without lecturing.  Tell them it makes you happy and complement them when they do something romantic for you.